
Fiona Lee is a personal finance writer for ReadyForZero. This is her first post here! She is a frugalista who loves discovering new ways to save money, especially in expensive cities.
When I first started budgeting, I had an idealistic view about my spending. I would become a money monk! All unnecessary items were cut, and so was anything that was remotely fun: clothes, cosmetics, or pastries from my favorite bakery. There were times when I even cut home supplies.
The problem with being a money monk is that it was unrealistic. My actual spending always included things I hadn’t planned for at the beginning of the month. The pattern was very similar over time—I would usually crack around the middle of the month, exhausted by all this personal austerity. A single purchase of a coffee or pastry would break the chain of good habits, triggering feelings of guilt and shame. Bigger purchases could then be justified, and by the end of the month the numbers on my budget would look at me reproachfully, and I felt guilty and anxious for spending so much.
After three months, I was tired of my own overspending and the guilt cycle. Instead, I came up with a more realistic way of dealing with my discretionary spending: I gave myself a monthly allowance of $150 to use any way I liked.
An allowance can easily fit into anyone’s monthly budget. Look over your last few months of discretionary spending and figure out an amount that works for you. Once you know how much you can spend, use the tips below to make your allowance a successful financial tool:
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